This site is a peek into my life, a thirty-something gay guy living in London, UK. You will see many aspects of my life, including nudity, and (very) occasionally (please...), sex. If you don't want to see this sort of thing, LEAVE THIS SITE NOW! If you are under the legal age to view this material, or it is prohibited in your country, LEAVE THIS SITE NOW! My hours online are currently limited by my work schedule during the week - I can't run the cam from work at the moment - but you will normally be able to watch me from 3pm when I get home from work, in bed from 7pm - 3am UK time, and most of the day and night at the weekend. You can Email me, or contact me on ICQ. Details are on the Stuff page. I do not respond to requests for nudity, unless it's from a hunk in the same room. The cam is a look at my life, not a request line. The cam picture will, occasionally, stop refreshing for a few minutes - like everyone else, I need some privacy.....
	Age	34
	Sign	Pisces (March 9th)
	Home	London (UK)
	Status	Single (but looking....)
	Hair	Dark Brown
	Height	5' 5"
	Preference	Bottom/Passive
	Fettishes	Ask me!
	I don't have many vices, so it's a good job I don't run a metal-work shop. I smoke - about 10 a day, sometimes more. I have considered stopping, but having lost 3 stones (45 lbs) in weight I don't fancy putting it all back on again, so I'm not going to stop yet. It's also the only breaks I get at work - popping out for a smoke - so that's another reason not to stop yet. I don't drink alcohol unless it's a very special occasion and unless there's someone around to carry me home, as my tolerance to it is now phenomenally low.... I don't take drugs of any sort except on special occasions - and only mild drugs then - if I want a killer rush I just stand up quickly. I'm addicted to bacon sandwiches - and with my healthy diet, I can make the lowest fat bacon sandwiches in existence.
	So you want to get inside my mind, huh? (ok, you probably want to get inside something else, but we'll focus on the mind here....) I'm a very insular person - don't get me wrong, I enjoy company, but I'm quite happy to be on my own too. I also need my own space - and my environment needs to be controlled by me. So, for instance, when I get up in the morning (a time when my moods are very variable) I need peace and quiet - as anyone who has spent any time with me will tell you, the easiest way to get shouted at is to start "talking at me" at this delicate time.... I also need space and solitude in the kitchen when I'm cooking - anyone who comes in and starts doing anything is likely to get things thrown at them.... I am very honest with people, and expect the same in return. The quickest way to piss me off is to say you'll call or meet and then not bother.... I'm what I like to describe as a "horizontal" person.... I'd rather be laying down than jumping round the room.... a trait which follows through into my work life - you'll never spot me panicking in a crisis, just calmly sorting things out. Then walking out of the room and screaming..... I'm a bit of a perfectionist as well. I can spend hours getting something just right, when hardly anyone will notice.... but I get bored with things quite quickly too - so don't ask me to build a house, because it will never get as far as the roof. I tend to be a bit paranoid about people too.... I will never have a party because I don't think anyone will turn up.... I'd rather just invite one person - it's much easier. And if I did have a party and people turned up, I'd be paranoid about damage to the house, gate-crashers etc etc.... I don't like people to be too "clingy".... there's no better way to push me away.... I do need a lot of personal space - except in the right situations of course!! I'm not too hot on big crowds.... I guess you could call me mildly agrophobic.... so there's no point in inviting me to a huge party or a crowded bar if I don't know many people there - I won't go. Or if I do, I'll leave very quickly. I don't know why, but I just feel uncomfortable.
	Food	Chinese/Indian/Italian/Thai
	Films	Horror/Weepie/Sci-fi
	Books	Horror/Sci-fi
	Music	60s/80s/Indie/Punk/Disco/Opera
	Colours	Red/Black/White/Green
	Men	Tall/Dark/Simmering/Hung/Rough/Defined - with a brain!
	Humour	Sarcasm/Irony
	I've recently ditched a job that occupied my entire life and drove me nuts, and replaced it with one that gives me more free time and is chilled - so at the moment I'm enjoying the freedom of being able to start and leave work at set times!!!! I now work (once again) at LBC Radio in London - London's talk station - as a producer/engineer on the morning programmes - Breakfast through to Lunch. I'm also working on a couple of internet-related businesses, so watch this space for details of "how the net made me a millionaire".... yeah, right.
	Food	Coconut/Pineaple/Olives
	Films	anything with stupid women....
	Books	Barbera Cartland/womens books
	Music	rip-off rap/bad covers/teen pop/artists who should look up the word "retire"
	Colours	Blue/Magnolia/Beige
	Men	Short/Fat/Ugly/Smelly/Brainless
	Humour	Sexist/Racist/Purile/Slapstick
	General	Women who drive cars the size of warships badly.
		Friends who never call when they say they will.
		Britain's attitude to customer service.
	Difficult one this.... I like a laugh, as do most people, but my colleagues at work always run screaming when I tell jokes - can't think why, because my jokes are genuinely hysterically funny.... I'm also very diplomatic (when I'm sober....) - if I want to be! This comes from years of working in the client service industry.... even when I want to punch somebody's lights out, I'll smile and chat to them as if we were best friends - then bite lumps out of the woodwork when they're not looking! I don't like myself at all when I've been drinking. Once I've had a couple I just can't stop, and go past the "happy talkative" stage into the "bitter vindictive" stage without knowing it.... which is another reason why I've pretty much stopped drinking now. But mainly, I'm fairly easy going, open to suggestions and willing to try most things.... and I do like the coast, the sound of the sea and rocky terrain! I could sit all day alone (or with a tall, dark, simmering, hung, rough, defined hunk - with a brain....) in a small cove on a beach reading a book with a couple of cold beers in my bag.... as long as the beach had internet access, that is..... That's it really..... there's nothing else I can think of to say about how wonderful I am....
	Still want to know more? then send me an Email and ask.... and include a pic of you too.... I like to see the people who come to this site! And if you want to audition for the part of tall, dark, simmering, hung, rough, defined hunk - with a brain - see my "Manhunt" section in Stuff!
	oh - and if you submit a pic of you, you are giving me (at my discretion) permission to include it on the site - so if you don't want it on here, you must tell me when you send it!!!!!